Human heart- from the perspective of love

Human heart is always unpredictable and each individual will always have a quality that made them a unique self. From the love point of view many people are satisfy with what they have but many others are suffering as their relationship gets longer.

In many cases girls always complain their boyfriend to be careless, not understanding, lack of intelligence to know what they are thinking of and etc. Girls always assume that their boyfriend should know what they are thinking of and expect them to do what they have assumed, but actually guys are always confuse of the actual outcome that the girls wanted to see, hence misunderstanding between couples would occur rapidly. Many girls would think that although they have told the guys what they want but guys just don’t have the talent to satisfy them with what they expect, perhaps guys are just not smart enough to catch the actual meaning. But not all guys are the same, some might be very caring, understanding and try to make the girls they like happy and do what ever to fulfill their needs and wants. They are known as dependent, but this is because they are afraid of losing their love one so that they will maintain the relationship with lots of effort. Vice versa for girls, they usually suffer on their own and will not give up easily cause they have in loved with their partner deeply and they don’t want to loose them but to tight them closely. Some might feel tire of this kind of relationship, yet they volunteer to suffer on their own silently, eventually she will have no sense of security. Facing coldness from their partner is heart breaking and painful process, but things can be worst if your partner do not heal the wound after knowing the sickness. In another case their partner might act to the problem immediately but some how the problem will occur again if they don’t maintain it, because many might feel relief once a problem is solved in a relationship and stop making more effort to stabilize the line, hence problems might return to the starting to the starting point like a cycle.

It is really hard to know what your loved one is truly thinking of, but the only hint you will get is to judge from your point of view and sometimes it might be right or totally wrong. We might want to know what they are thinking of but it’s often hard for us to open our door of the heart and ask for their opinion bravely simply because of our shyness or afraid of accepting the outcome that we are not expecting for. Maybe you can find many signs that he/she is having the same thoughts as yours but usually we will still think of the negative treads and try not to believe we are right and we will only stop feeling this way till the answers are been told by him/her the process can be very time taking and lots of self-esteem is needed, but after knowing the result that is what you expect will bring you lots of happiness and relief from everything that you have been through. In the other hand, when you finally have the braveness to tell him/her that you love them, you might not get the expected returns from them, the friendship that you have built up might be corrupted in just a minute, both of you might feel embarrass to each other and even try to avoid them in the future. Whereas some people can still be close friends after that which is really depends on every individual.

For me I believe in fate, whoever is meant to be yours they will not run away from you, but if they are not yours no mater how hard you want it to be you will not succeed. Anybody who is outside the box might give you many comments but you will never agree with them once you have experienced it by your own, simply because of human nature – stubbornness.

Wish everyone will find their Mr. Right and Ms. Right without been held back by their shyness and lack of self esteem.